I need help.

Have you ever been in a position where you needed a helping hand? 

Last night, my youngest daughter and I were outside trying out her bow and arrow. We successfully shot all 6 of them— not at the target mind you; just off in the distance somewhere—-When went to find them, we could only find 5  of the 6. the other one was long gone. 

It was getting dark, and we have a big lawn and we both are alike, so when we could not figure out where the arrow had landed, we both called out for help. “Mom”  Erica said.  “Beth” I said, “We need help finding the arrow…” 

Thankfully, my wife came outside to offer us some assistance. We looked and looked and looked, but came up short. We couldn't find the arrow. 

the point I’m trying to make today is simply this: At some point in time you are going to need help with something. 

Someday, somewhere, you will need help. There will be a time and place where you are unable on your own to do some thing, and you will need help. 

There is nothing wrong with asking for help. Ever. There is nothing wrong with admitting that you can't do something on your own, there is nothing wrong with asking someone to stop and help you out. 

What often stops us from asking for help is our pride. We want everyone to think that we are able to do anything and everything, and so when we actually do need help, we think our reputation is on the line and we don’t want to “cramp our style” and so we don’t ask for help. There is a word for that: Stupid. 

The Bible reminds is that “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18 NIB84)

In this world of “me first”, let’s buck the trend and, when— not if— when we need help, let’s ask for it. There is nothing wrong with admitting you need help, nothing wrong with asking for help. In fact, you might be surprised at how easy as task turns out once you've asked for help. 

Pride will lead to destruction. Humility will not. So, ask for help! 

What are you doing this afternoon? I’ve got an arrow to find!